I’m not like other sex therapists who came into this field because they just "loooove sex" and always found it fascinating. I did not grow up talking about it freely, I did not feel comfortable at all times knowing my wants and needs or felt confident voicing them. My passion comes from my own healing journey. 

Through my own experiences and growth, I have come to understand the importance of healing the core wound that blocks so many of us from feeling pleasure. It’s not enough to scratch the surface by practicing different masturbation techniques and reading erotic books, hoping they will magically solve the problem. It’s so much more complex than that and it’s essential that we approach both our body and mind.

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When our nervous system is triggered, it becomes physically impossible to feel lust and pleasure, and no erotic book in the world can heal our nervous system so that we can feel safe in our bodies and feel free and alive to enjoy ourselves or our partner. That’s why we need to connect with the parts of ourselves that hold all the uncomfortable feelings including deep shame, unworthiness, and most importantly, fear. By doing so, you can teach your body that intimacy and sex are safe.